Anti-choice protesters tend to be bullies and one man figured out how
to push back. In 2011, the owner of a building that houses a Maryland
reproductive health
services clinic decided to take matters into his own hands after a mob
of anti-abortion protesters harassed him and his family one too many
times. With the help of a group of friends and community members, a new
pro-choice movement was founded. Delightfully, it’s based on the idea of
“do unto others as they have done unto you.”
The building he now rents was firebombed by dangerous extremists decades ago.
Todd Stave, the owner of the building that houses the Maryland
clinic, grew up in the shadow of the debate over women’s reproductive
choices. His father originally owned and operated the clinic that Stave
now rents to others. In an interview with the
Washington Post
he described seeing protesters outside his home at an early age. The
building he now rents was once firebombed by dangerous extremists
decades ago.
Stave finally decided he’d had enough of the radical protesters.
Stave’s personal information has been displayed on posters and fliers, his address
and phone
number shared over the internet. He and his family have been harassed
by angry protesters and hateful extremists, both in person and over the
telephone, at all hours of the day and night. It wasn’t until the
anti-choice protesters showed up at his daughter’s middle school, waving
signs with his name and contact information along with the bloody
pictures of mangled fetuses, that Stave finally decided he’d had enough.
With the support of his community, Stave came up with a plan. He
turned the tables on the vicious anti-choice movement, using their own
tactics against them. Collecting names and personal information of the
sign carrying protesters, he organized a team who began giving the
crazed protesters a taste of their own medicine.
Voice of Choice has grown to include thousands of members and volunteers, from all across the country.
Unlike the people who harassed his family, Stave’s group does not
resort to threats or hysterics. They may mention the name of the
person’s child, their
school
or even their street address, but always in the context of a polite
conversation. Since first forming just over two years ago, the group,
now known as Voice of Choice, has grown to include thousands of members
and volunteers, from all across the country. They use e-mail, telephone
and social media to respond to harassing callers and hate spewing
protesters, sometimes returning as many as 5,000 phone calls on behalf
of a person who is being harassed by anti-choice fanatics.
“If you hit me I will hit you back.”
“I like to tell people that I developed my strategies when I was on
the playground in grade school. Basically, if you hit me I will hit you
back. And while we have had great success turning the tables on those
who were used to acting with impunity, the reality is that people from
both sides of the abortion argument admire the civility in the way we
make our point,” Stave wrote on the one year anniversary of
Voice of Choice.
Voice of Choice is a necessary counter-movement to anti-choice protesters.
Given the level of extremism often displayed by anti-choice
protesters, Voice of Choice is a necessary counter-movement. The
group defends the rights of women and those of the people who support
them. To volunteer or lend your support to the movement, visit Voice of
Choice web-site
here. The group also has a Facebook page, which you find
here and a twitter account,
here.
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